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dreamflowerESPECIALLY if you normally skim over me...
I really am a chicken. I have never really made any kind of serious effort to trim my flist since I got my LJ. I'm afraid I will offend someone, or even worse, hurt someone's feelings. I'm afraid I will accidentally delete someone that I didn't mean to. And quite honestly it seems like an overwhelming task.
So, here's the deal: this is an invitation to *unfriend* me. If you rarely, if ever, read my posts, if you never comment on them, if I never comment on you, if you've lost interest because you've moved on to another fandom, and don't care much about hobbits anymore, or well, whatever--unfriend me!
Then, see, I can go in and unfriend the ones who unfriended me.
Also, if you still want to keep me, but you know of someone else on my flist who never posts anymore, because they've abandoned LJ, let me know, and I can unfriend them without feeling any guilt. Or if I have you friended at more than one journal, let me know which one you want me to keep, and I'll unfriend the others.
*makes puppy dog eyes* Help me out here.
I won't be hurt or offended if you take me up on this--I will be relieved.
And if you are someone I like to read about anyway, well, I'll just keep you without you being obligated to do the same.
I really am a chicken. I have never really made any kind of serious effort to trim my flist since I got my LJ. I'm afraid I will offend someone, or even worse, hurt someone's feelings. I'm afraid I will accidentally delete someone that I didn't mean to. And quite honestly it seems like an overwhelming task.
So, here's the deal: this is an invitation to *unfriend* me. If you rarely, if ever, read my posts, if you never comment on them, if I never comment on you, if you've lost interest because you've moved on to another fandom, and don't care much about hobbits anymore, or well, whatever--unfriend me!
Then, see, I can go in and unfriend the ones who unfriended me.
Also, if you still want to keep me, but you know of someone else on my flist who never posts anymore, because they've abandoned LJ, let me know, and I can unfriend them without feeling any guilt. Or if I have you friended at more than one journal, let me know which one you want me to keep, and I'll unfriend the others.
*makes puppy dog eyes* Help me out here.
I won't be hurt or offended if you take me up on this--I will be relieved.
And if you are someone I like to read about anyway, well, I'll just keep you without you being obligated to do the same.